Dear MUB,

I want to know if I am wrong because this man made me feel like I am the worst girlfriend in the world just for asking a simple question.

We have been together for 4 years and I have a 2 year old son who does not belong to him. Before I agreed to be his woman I asked him if he was sure he wanted to be with me because I come with baggage and I don’t want any man to mistreat my son. He told me he love me and my son is a part of me so he will love him equally.

He has been loving my son, not as much as I want him to but he isn’t his child so I don’t expect him to be his father.

Anyway, I am writing to you because, for the past 4 years that I have been with him, he has never done anything for me for Mother’s Day. I spoke to him about it last year but I don’t think he took me seriously. I believe he thinks because he didn’t make me a mother he shouldn’t celebrate me.

Today, I heard him on the phone making plans for his mother so I asked him what about me. MUB, he got into a rage and started barking after me. He said some hurtful things to me. He said I am selfish for expecting him to treat me on Mother’s Day. He said he is my man and not my baby’s father so stop fucking pestering him about things that don’t concern him.

MUB, I came home and I cried my eyes out. I want to know if I am wrong for expecting him to treat me for Mother’s Day. I don’t expect anything big, all I want to do is feel appreciated for being a good mother. I understand he didn’t make me a mother but he’s the man I’m with so I think he should at least do something for me.

I think it’s unfair because since I got with him I stopped accepting gifts from my child’s father because he is a very jealous man and I don’t want him to feel uncomfortable. My baby’s father offered me a spa package for my Mother’s Day and I turned him down because of the respect I have for him.

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May 8, 2024 12:27 pm

Tek the spa package gift. And reevaluate that relationship. It’s not about the gift but if he truly loved you wholeheartedly and accept your kid as his, why wouldn’t he celebrate you for Mother’s Day knowing it’s important ? I’m fairly certain this isn’t the only time he’s disregarded your feelings

Sheniqua Warner
Sheniqua Warner
May 8, 2024 9:28 am

May 8, 2024 9:22 am


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