Dear MUB,

I am having second thoughts about getting married to this man. Yesterday, a woman called me and told me that she saw that I was getting married to him on Facebook and she wasn’t going to tell me anything but her heart is weighing heavy.

I was a bit skeptical until she sent me a few disturbing photos. I went to see her and she had a lot of things to say about him. She told me that they used to be together 8 years ago and he is not a nice person. She told me the first time she got pregnant for him, he gave her something to drink and when that didn’t work, he kicked her in her stomach which made her lose the baby.

If that wasn’t bad she told me that she found out that he was having sex with a teenager and her mother. She found out from his phone which she had all the screenshots to show me. MUB, there was a video of him eating out the mother.

At the end of the conversation, she told me that she was not trying to stop me from getting married to him because it was a long time ago but she wanted to let me know the kind of man I was going to spend the rest of my life with.

MUB, I haven’t said anything to him. I keep telling myself that it was a long time ago and I can see that he is no longer that person but I will be lying if I said what that woman told me isn’t bothering me.

I don’t want to have a conversation with him about his pass but I feel uncomfortable about spending the rest of my life with a man who hit a woman to kill her child and was dealing with a teenager. MUB, I can’t look pass that.

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