Dear MUB,

I just went to surprise my girlfriend at work for the first time because I am on 3 weeks’ holiday.

The plan was to pick her up and take her for lunch. I wasn’t getting her on her phone so I went into the building and asked for her. Her coworker asked me who am I to her, and I said brother because I didn’t want him to tell her that her man came to her.

He went in and came back only to tell me that they said she had left with her man. I swear all the blood in my body turned cold. I’m there waiting for him to say that he’s joking. The man asked me if I want to leave a message.

MUB, I went in my car and waited until she came back. I stayed in my car and watched her kiss the guy that dropped her off.

I can’t even describe how I felt. I just sat back in the car emotionless. A couple of minutes after she went in, she messaged me “hi babe”, and asked if I was trying to get her.

I don’t think I’m going to reply. I don’t know what I am to her, but I know I’m not her main man.