Dear MUB,

I don’t want to jump to conclusions but I saw something today that made me very uncomfortable.

Me and my boyfriend went to town today to do some Christmas shopping. I’m not sure but I think I saw the same girl he went to pass him straight inside of Shouls.

After we got something to eat, he told me to meet him back by the bank in a few minutes because he didn’t want me to see what he was buying for me.

We have been together for 2 years. This year is going to make 3. I don’t want to seem ungrateful but for the past two years he has been buying me things I don’t like so I decided to see where he was going so I could stop him if he was going to pick up something stupid.

He went down by Heritage Quay. MUB, I saw him walk up to some woman and hug her from the back. He then took out his wallet and gave her some money, kissed her on the cheek, and walked off. I hurried back to the bank and waited for him. He reached back a few minutes later.

I asked him where is the gift and he said he just paid for it. So I guess he gave the woman money for my gift but the way he behaved with her looked like they have something going on.

When I got home I found her on Facebook and I didn’t find anything that indicated that she own a business so I am more skeptical. I also went into his phone and there weren’t any precious messages which I find strange because how did he know where to meet her?

MUB, everything about this woman seems strange but I don’t want to make an issue about it and end up being wrong. I want to believe that I am just paranoid.


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December 18, 2023 11:51 am

Hummmmmm good luck

December 18, 2023 1:05 am

You know good and well he ain’t hugging and kissing up nobody to buy a gift